Thanks — I did wonder afterwards if that was what you meant!
Good point about other people doing the fetishising — though I'm fairly sure that there is often fetishising/desire on the part of the person being fattened.
The main parallel I had in mind was that both feederism and anorexia seem to be very focused on the process of change. That is, the feeder is only happy as long as their — er, not sure what the word would be, partner? — continues to gain. This is of course unsustainable. (It may also not be entirely true — all I know is what I've seen on the internet and on the telly.) Similarly I had the idea that anorexia involves the desire to continue losing weight rather than to get to a certain point and stay there — or am I completely off base there? (Please tell me if I am — I don't know that much about anorexia either.)
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Good point about other people doing the fetishising — though I'm fairly sure that there is often fetishising/desire on the part of the person being fattened.
The main parallel I had in mind was that both feederism and anorexia seem to be very focused on the process of change. That is, the feeder is only happy as long as their — er, not sure what the word would be, partner? — continues to gain. This is of course unsustainable. (It may also not be entirely true — all I know is what I've seen on the internet and on the telly.) Similarly I had the idea that anorexia involves the desire to continue losing weight rather than to get to a certain point and stay there — or am I completely off base there? (Please tell me if I am — I don't know that much about anorexia either.)